Ask The Expert: My Daughter Won't Read Anything New
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My daughter has been reading the same book over and over and is refusing to try anything new. What should I do?
First. Breathe. We see this reading trend a lot. Toddlers will re-read and re-read the same book. At some point, they may even memorize it before “officially” reading it. This repetition is great- they are becoming readers. We also see this with elementary school readers. My own daughter has read Smile and Sisters (both graphic novels by Raina Telgemeier) 10,000 times. Here’s why it’s okay…
She started reading it in 2nd grade. Now, in 4th grade, she brings new experiences and gleans new world knowledge - so it’s like reading a new book. Likewise, my son has read the Percy Jackson series 3 times. Now, however, he’s learned more about Greek mythology, making it a richer reading experience the third time around.
But I understand why this single-mindedness is tough, especially when we want to balance being enthusiastic about books without being too pushy (all while still suppling a steady stack of books that we hope they will eventually read)! Try these tips.
Read aloud. I was able to let me daughter re-read the same book over and over on her own, but she was willing to try something new (Vanderbeekers of 141st Street, To Night Owl From Dogfish, Wish) when I read it to her.
Try something similar. If she likes graphic novels, bring home a new one.
Checkout reading websites together or google authors.
Share your childhood favorite. Many kids will love Judy Blume, J.R. R. Tolkien or Lois Lowry books.
Preorder the next book in a popular series. Mark the date on your calendar.
Go the library. Keep a stack (about 5 books) near the bed- there’s always a chance to he/she might pick it up.
Think about nonfiction. There are incredible picture books, informational, and Weird But True books that kids love.
Try reading middle grade books yourself. Then, you can share them. (My husband just finished Framed and Vanished by James Ponti).
